How To Deal With Grief and Trauma
You can't go through life without experiencing loss and trauma the question is how do we deal and live with the grief and pain? Join Nathalie Himmelrich, grief expert and author, talking to people who have experienced grief and trauma first-hand. If you want to be inspired by others who traveled through their grief and trauma, found that healing is possible, and came out the other end knowing they can survive and thrive in life after loss. For more info: www.nathaliehimmelrich.com
How To Deal With Grief and Trauma
175 The Many Faces of Trauma | Migration & Displacement Trauma: Losing Home, Language, Self
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Migration and displacement can be traumatic not only because of what prompted the move, but because the nervous system loses multiple safety cues at once—home, language, social rules, community, and familiar identity. In this episode, we explore migration and displacement trauma as both a trauma pathway (chronic stress, uncertainty, vigilance) and a grief pathway (loss of belonging, status, and “nervous system home base”). Using simple polyvagal-informed language, we look at why safety cues disappear, how identity disruption adds a second layer, and what helps in realistic, culturally respectful ways. We close with a grounding practice designed to support “two homes”: honouring roots while allowing slow settling.
In this episode, you’ll learn
- A clear definition of migration and displacement trauma (loss + uncertainty + low control + low support)
- Why migration involves grief as well as nervous-system adaptation
- Polyvagal-informed patterns: hypervigilance, social anxiety, shutdown, and “in-between” functioning
- The identity layer: language, status loss, and feeling “not from there / not from here”
- Common signs (non-diagnostic): isolation, overworking, paperwork, hypervigilance, shame, waves of grief
- What helps: rebuilding safety cues, language compassion, low-demand belonging, naming grief, informed support
- A grounding practice for bridging roots and the present ground
Grounding practice (2–3 minutes): “Two Homes”
- One hand on chest (roots), one hand on belly/thigh (present ground)
- 4 breaths as a “bridge” between hands
- Phrases: “I carry my roots” + “I am here/allowed to settle, one step at a time”
- Orient to one neutral/pleasant object
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