How To Deal With Grief and Trauma
You can't go through life without experiencing loss and trauma the question is how do we deal and live with the grief and pain? Join Nathalie Himmelrich, grief expert and author, talking to people who have experienced grief and trauma first-hand. If you want to be inspired by others who traveled through their grief and trauma, found that healing is possible, and came out the other end knowing they can survive and thrive in life after loss. For more info: www.nathaliehimmelrich.com
How To Deal With Grief and Trauma
162 The Many Faces of Trauma | The Trauma Map: How This Series Works
Welcome to the first episode of my new series “The Many Faces of Trauma.” In this opening episode, I share why I’m creating this series and how I’ll guide you through different trauma types in a way that’s clear, gentle, and not overwhelming. I introduce the “trauma map” I’ll be using across two seasons, explain what I mean by “trauma types” (as pathways, not labels), and offer a simple, polyvagal-informed way to understand what your nervous system may be doing.
In this episode, I cover
- Why I’m creating a trauma-types series—and how naming can reduce shame
- What I mean by “trauma type” (a pathway, not a box you live in)
- This series is structured across two seasons, so you can go at your own pace
- The five big pathways:
- Foundations
- Early imprint trauma
- Event-based trauma
- Society-shaped & environment-based trauma
- What trauma can become (including how trauma can affect the body)
- My simple, plain-language polyvagal map of nervous system states:
- Safety & connection - ventral
- Mobilised protection (fight/flight) - sympathetic
- Shutdown protection (numb/freeze/collapse) - dorsal
- How to listen in a way that supports your system
Gentle content note
In this episode, I talk about trauma in general terms with no graphic detail. You’re always welcome to pause, step away, or come back later.
Grounding practice
I guide you through a brief practice that’s safe for most people, including:
- Orienting (noticing a few neutral objects around you)
- Longer-exhale breathing
- Contact + choice (feeling support in your body and naming one small next step)
How I recommend you use this series
- You don’t have to listen in order; start where you feel steady or curious
- You may relate to more than one episode (that’s common)
- This series is not a diagnosis tool; it’s a map for understanding and support
I invite you to check my website for the free resources offered for both those affected by trauma and those supporting them.
Coming next: When the Body
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